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JEFFERY CRAWFORD
This is for beginners. This blog will progressively lead you to success. This will also teach you to become comfortable around women and to percieve the interaction differently than normal. Most individuals percieve the interaction fearful and or doubtful follow the routine below as described. The perception of interest should be desired to change to a fun experience. It will take a little time to change that is why I am making it simple and easy.
Start by going up to a woman in general and saying hi this is a typical opener. Remember to become fully aware of where you are at. Practice this at least five times a day. Remember before you approach become fully aware of your surroundings.
Example #1. For example if you are in a or going to a super market this should be recognized on the way there to the super market in the parking lot and in the supermarket. This allows a quick transition from an opener of "Hi" to possibly a conversation. The whole point is to not intend to pick the woman up but to become comfortable with small talk and approach. You say hi. She says hi. You say. Do you shop here often? She says yes, or no. You say to yes, Well I do also or this is my first time visiting. They have alot of good deals here. I see you bought the _________. Try to assess what she has purchsed already, take a few seconds to recognize this before saying hi.
There are many different circumstances in a supermarket that allow an opener.
Circumstance #1. There is a woman in line right in front of you. Touch her on the shoulder as softly as if you were the touch of silk (refer to this as a natural touch) and say Hi and go from there as described above.
Circumstance #2. You are walking down a shopping isle and you see a woman that you are interested in so you approach if she is facing you then you need to approach her right away. If she notices you then smile, she will smile and try not make eye contact until you get close enough to say something to her. Be casual in the beginning approach. Simply go up to her and touch her on the arm and look her in the eyes and say Hi. She will say HI and then you transition to "Do you shop here often?" She might say yes or no. Notice what she is buying already and comment on that. If it is healthy food and she looks healthy then say "Are you a health nut or what?" Be funny. Or notice what she already has in her hand. After you transition from an opener then you can be funny. After you ask her about the item she has in her hand and she responds then think of something clever to say about it. Don't worry I have a back up plan for you.LOL If she comments on what is in her hand and you get stumped. Then say hmmm intersting. I like your shirt. She will say "thank you." Where did you buy that at wal-mart. Don't laugh just keep a straight face and look as if no matter what she says it will not impress you. This will make her chase you emotionally. This should only take about a minute or two or less don't concern yourself with the time except after you get past the transition and are able to get good reactions, it will be time to close. If you are interested then tell her that you enjoyed talking to her and have to go now and would like to continue the conversation later. Give her your cell phone and tell her to put the number in there so that you can continue the conversation later. If you are not interested eject and leave before offering her the phone. Remember this is a way to improve your social skill so you may want to try more than one 7 or above a day, and try a 5 or less the other 4 times until you get used to approaching, opening and transitioning.
OPENERS..... Good openers used during day or night would be Hi, Hello! Very simple. There are a couple of things you must remember before attempting this. Make physical contact if possible, it is a must. Touch the side of the arm if standing or touchthe hand if sitting beside them or the shoulder as you sit down beside them and state your opener. If you make her laugh touch her again briefly the same as you did the first time maybe a split second longer and pull back.
This is a good start I will add more tomorrow. Try it and tell me what you think.
Tags: Openers And Transitions
