This is revisit of an older blog post i made how pua can be a bad habit.
Someone left an interesting comment on it, so i want to build more on the topic of pua and where we should draw line, and what is the line. I have simple rule in my meeting and dating with women, i wont do what i wouldnt want to be done on me.
As through my journey, when i would brake up with a girl, i would just go MIA , so no calls no texts. I figured if we just FBs, its no big deal. But then i realized, and experienced that on my part, that its much better to call and make a clean brake, so the girl doesnt feel hanging. So its not about just be concerned about how i feel, but also about how girls feel, and leaving her with no word or anything is something i no longer do. Even if its just a short phone call, i will make clear why its not working.
To those PUAs who think routines and mechanical planning is everyrythgin, i am here with a good news. Once you have tunned yourself to be able to feel the interaction, you dont need any routines or pre made stuff, women will want to be around you. It probably will be the hardest thing, letting go of the methods you are used too, but it has to be done. What you will notice when you go cold turkey, so to speak, that you will be more concious of your interactions not in manipulation sort of way, but being in a moment sort of way. You will start noticing and catching yourself, when you are about to use routine, why do you use routine? it simple, routines feel safe, as they take you back to comfort zone, where you know what will happen. Which ofcourse is not true. No routine will make you attractive, and if you are fun and interesting to begin with, you dont need routines.
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